Wednesday 11 July 2012

How to Get Her To Smile With You

If I had to pick one thing to choose as being my favorite thing about meeting women, it would be flirting. The fun that you can have when you are flirting with an attractive woman can't be topped by many things. However, I do know that there are many guys out there who feel really awkward when they are trying to flirt and that they don't get to have that fun experience. That can be changed though, and you can learn to have some fun whenever you interact with a woman.

These three tips will help you to get a woman smiling when you are trying to flirt with her:
1. Be complimentary but make it sound authentic.

I know that there are extreme opinions on this. Some guys think that you should be constantly complimenting a woman all of the time and then there are those guys who think that you should basically never compliment a woman. I don't like either extreme, because of the fact that it is not natural to be that way. Just be natural when you compliment a woman, give her a reason to believe that you are being authentic and you are sure to see her smiling back at you.

2. Be playful when you are trying to impress her.

One of the things that guys do that makes it easy for them to feel awkward when they are trying to flirt with a woman, is they try to be too serious while they are trying to impress her. Look, it is natural to want to impress a woman a little bit. However, when you are being too serious about it, then you are taking the fun out of it. Instead, try to be a little bit more playful and see where that gets you.

3. Tease her about something without being vicious.

There is nothing like teasing a woman the right way and you will know that you are doing it right when you see she is smiling back at you and it is like she cannot stop smiling. However, if you cross that line where you sound mean or vicious, then you are not going to be greeted with a smile. There is a little bit of an art to this, so you made need to use a little bit of trial and error before you get it right, but, it is well worth it when you do.

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