Does He Hookup at Bachelor Parties?

As females, there is always a serious twinge of anxiety when your man attends a bachelor party whether as the soon-to-be groom or just a guest you can’t help but think about what’s going to happen.

The horrific stories are endless: strippers, binge drinking, lap dances, some even hookup with prostitutes. You don’t think you’re man’s going to cross that line, but you also know that guys can make stupid decisions when egged on by his buddies. Well, here are a few facts that may be good news for girls who are attached, though it doesn’t do much good for the rest of us.

According to experts, it’s not the groom who is likely to cheat. But instead, it’s his buddies maybe because it’s their first raunchy boys’ night out in ages who might seriously misbehave.

However, bachelor’s parties don’t have to be a committed girl’s worst relationship nightmare. We asked the experts on how to cheatproof this kind of event.

The Friend Factor

First, you should determine how an adult rated hookup gets started. The single guys are often the troublemakers who pressures their non-single buddies to loosen up on their morals a little or a lot. Regardless if they’re single or in a relationship, guys are always encouraged by their friends who want to find an excuse to party.

In addition, the younger guys in their 20s are more likely to go along than their older pals, when, say, a stripper is offering private performances in the bedroom. But the bottom line is nobody can be influenced unless they want to be.

Define Your Terms

Your best bet is to be preventive: Since men and women have different definitions of what constitutes cheating, it’s important to make yours crystal clear.

While the thought of a half-naked woman grinding her lady bits onto your guy’s crotch might completely freak you out, he may think it’s perfectly harmless to get a lap dance. So present your concerns by approaching him in a nonthreatening, but straightforward way, like saying, “I would feel really uncomfortable if…”

The perfect time to set things clear is right after a good romp, when the love hormone oxytocin is raging through both your bodies. Point out that you’re willing to try new things in the bedroom because you have complete trust in him and know you’re the only girl he’s doing stuff like that in bed with. You can then figure out ways he can still have fun, on terms that you both agree with.